In my last entry, I discussed how to get a spanking, assuming you have someone to help you out. But if you haven’t found that special someone, here are a few tips on finding her or him.
One question Herb and I get a lot is: where did you meet?
Actually, we met on Craig’s List! Nowadays, it seems filtering through there is like looking for a diamond in the rough, but fortunately there are a number of other avenues for spanko networking. A few of my favorite are:
Parties: The only way to get a “hands on” experience is to meet someone face to face. I love spanking parties, because you can joke about spanking to anyone and everyone, share your experiences and fantasies, and you don’t have to worry they will look at you as if you to say “you like to do what?” Here are links to a few groups that hold spanking parties.
Shadow Lane
Florida Moonshine
Texas Allstate E-mail Paul tubaman2020@aol.com
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You can find more party announcements and other rousing discussions at My Spanking Forum.
Shadow Lane Party, 2007
FetLife: The MySpace of fetishes. Here, you can freely profess your love for spanking without risk of being deleted. You can set up a profile and list your interests, how interested you are (curious, into everything about it, like to watch, like to give, like to receive) and even join group discussions with those who have similar interests. They have a number of fetishes listed so you can explore role play fantasies, costumes, and more.
Spanking “Dating” Sites: Whereas FetLife is more of a social networking sites for making friends and keeping up with old ones, these sites are more geared toward finding a play partner
Spanking Internet Network (SIN)
Spank Finder
Coming soon: tips for e-mailing the girl of your dreams.
March 19th, 2009 - 2:32 pm
my first dom was an ass and we met on myspace .. and he treated me like i wasnt nothing ..
March 19th, 2009 - 5:52 pm
chole i yet to meet any female who could or like to give me spankings i ialway say i love to be spanked. but can not find that perfect female yet. i also say i can switch and spank the female but i would want spanked by her in return. but may have depend on situation like if iam spanking her for punishment but if she willing go both way be fun too
if you ever decide to switch and start giving out spankings i am willing to let you give me spankings. you can practice on me and use my butt as an experment project hell you can do it many times and over and over if have too lol iam sure i won’t complain lol at all
March 20th, 2009 - 8:55 am
Chloe you received big spanks from David didnt you on your cute botty lots of love and spanks from tim xx
March 22nd, 2009 - 9:32 am
Hi Chloe
Love the picture of you,Pixie and Beverly, you look like you had
a good time at Shadow Lane last year.Did you attend this year??
And I can hardly wait to read your tips on e-mailing the girl of
my dreams.You, Pixie,Beverly,Sarah and of course Veronica will
all be getting an e-mail, because you are all the girls I dream about.
Take care
Love AK
March 25th, 2009 - 9:31 pm
Gret post hun. I love SIN. I met my new “spanker/play” partner there.
April 4th, 2009 - 1:08 pm
Chloe–another group that has spanking parties (and one of the better groups, IMHO, is Chicago Crimson Moon, based in Illinois. They usually have at least 3 parties a year. They have a FetLife group, and you can also check them out at chicagocrimsonmoon.net
Dr. Ken
April 21st, 2009 - 9:16 am
Great for Brit spankers./spankees, but what about us poor convicts? Nobody is into spanking in Australia, though Ive advertised. Havign said that all the girls I date willingly lay over my lap at some stage.
Nice site Chloe