THE WIGGLE (noun): Kicking, screaming, bending, flinching, flailing, and otherwise attempting to move out of the line of fire, most often a spanker’s hand or other implement. Also known as OTK gymnastics.
Very rarely have I seen (or received myself) a spanking that didn’t involve at least some form of “the wiggle.” Depending on my mood and pain tolerance that day, I employ varying degrees of the wiggle. To some extent, it is expected and nothing is done. Sometimes, however, especially where safety is concerned (i.e., I am being paddled and I put my hand back), I will get my hand restrained, or threatened that a harder spanking will ensue if I do not cooperate.
So, what’s your preference? Do you like the spankee to submit and take the spanking without a fight, or do you like a little fire in that person?
What happens when you or your spankee wiggles too much, or puts their hand back? Does she/ he get reprimanded, restrained, a longer spanking, or something else?
September 6th, 2008 - 5:01 pm
A bit of wiggling is great, as long as it doesn’t get too violent
September 6th, 2008 - 7:12 pm
Chloe–
I absolutely prefer a spankee with some life in her! I like good honest reaction, whether its verbal or physical. It’s all part of the fun, IMO.
I can think of nothing worse that a spankee who just lies there and doesn’t react at all…..it’s boring to me as a spanker, plus I can’t gauge how the spanking is going when I get no feedback.
It would also make for a boring video….
So give me reaction, give me yelping and wiggling and kicking….nothing life-threatening to spanker or spankee, you understand, but SOMETHING!
Dr. Ken
September 6th, 2008 - 10:41 pm
Very good (and illustrative) pics, Chloe. Thanks.
I’d prefer the spankee to be themselves and act in a genuine and open manner. I think different kinds of spankings, under varying circumstances, tend to have their own personalities. A discipline spanking that you know is going to happen well beforehand, can be a more solemn event, but something spontaneous where she’s maybe just being a brat can be a very different interaction. Personality is the most interesting aspect of it.
I don’t mind someone who takes their spanking in a submissive fashion, but if I was writing my own script, I prefer a lot more drama. I like some negotiation, maybe trying to get out of what she has coming. It doesn’t have to be so easy for the spanker. They have to show some qualities that convince you why they have this position of authority. In a spankee, I appreciate someone smart and with an independent mind. If a spanking is going to be disciplinary, it’s not supposed to be desired at the time. It makes sense if there isn’t complete cooperation. The spanking is a very unpleasant experience. Some can take that kind of spanking stoically, but I want to see and hear that it’s having a meaningful effect.
“The wiggle” seems to be a natural reaction, and wanting to cover your bottom is understandable. Just for safety reasons, though, the spanker can’t allow too much movement, or chance fragile fingers or toes getting hit. You can’t forget that an implement like a paddle or hairbrush is a dangerous object, and it’s only on those well-padded spots on the anatomy where you should ever apply such punishment. There’s also the matter of control, and the spanker has to be able to administer precisely what they’ve determined is necessary and how it’s to be delivered. A disciplinarian has to establish boundaries that the spankee respects. They have to be strong and determined. I restrain her hand if necessary, but there must be a penalty for continued interference. I think it’s going to depend on the spankee how that’s handled. Reprimand can work well enough in my experience, but you can get creative in providing the incentive needed for her to take her discipline without so much fuss that it becomes dangerous or too disruptive.
Discipline as a daily form of structure can’t be effective if the one living under that condition believes they can “wiggle” out of anything simply because they wish to avoid their consequences at the time.
Brett
September 7th, 2008 - 4:31 pm
When I first started buying spanking videos, I made the mistake of getting one titled “Barnyard Blushing” by Scarlett Hill. The girl (an amateur, it turned out) continually hopped off the Top’s lap, and probably got only a half dozen real smacks in the entire spanking. Another very well-known model, toward the end of her work with a certain very well-known studio, also began doing everything possible to avoid being spanked: OTK, one smack, and off she gets, back OTK, another attempted smack, halted for feet in the way, and on it went.
Wiggling and some reasonable resistance is expected in an RL spanking, but too much must be curbed else the spanking turns into a wrestling match. On screen, however, there is a limit to how much time is available for the scene, and resistance becomes a form of dilution, actually shortening the spanking-time. I’m not saying “just spank and that’s all,” as that actually tends to be of limited interest over the length of, say, a PB scene. I’m saying that, in an effective video scene, there’s a point of resignation to your fate, and an actual spanking is depicted. You’re not supposed to like it, quite the opposite in fact, but you must ultimately accept it. In the spanking world, this is the consequence of your transgression.
I notice that most of the pix you selected to post have you reaching back to cover, and your hand is being restrained. As would be expected because, unless you’re getting spanked three times in a single day, those first smacks are setting fire to fresh nerve endings – quite a shock, I imagine. In the shot of you over Veronica’s lap it appears that you’re holding on for dear life, hoping it will end soon if you just don’t fight it, but your legs are doing their best to run away. Natural and enjoyable all. Pain DO hurt (or should) and you must find a way to cope while it lasts. One good thing about the spankings depicted in those old movies and TV shows, while the actors may not actually have been getting spanked, they were sure taught to make it look (and sound) convincing. (Do you ever audio tape your RL spankings and listen later – after long enough that that it’s almost fresh? If you listen carefully, like a blind person, you might be surprised that there were things going on that you were unaware of – at least consciously.)
September 8th, 2008 - 2:48 pm
Wiggling and reaching back are fine, it’s those high-flying Chloe kicks that make me nervous!:) Generally speaking, as long as I can keep my teeth, it’s all good!
September 9th, 2008 - 4:10 pm
When I first started buying spanking videos, I made the mistake of getting one titled “Barnyard Blushing” by Scarlett Hill. The girl (an amateur, it turned out) continually hopped off the Top’s lap, and probably got only a half dozen real smacks in the entire spanking. Another very well-known model, toward the end of her work with a certain very well-known studio, also began doing everything possible to avoid being spanked: OTK, one smack, and off she gets, back OTK, another attempted smack, halted for feet in the way, and on it went.
Wiggling and some reasonable resistance is expected in an RL spanking, but too much must be curbed else the spanking turns into a wrestling match. On screen, however, there is a limit to how much time is available for the scene, and resistance becomes a form of dilution, actually shortening the spanking-time. I’m not saying “just spank and that’s all,” as that actually tends to be of limited interest over the length of, say, a PB scene. I’m saying that, in an effective video scene, there’s a point of resignation to your fate, and an actual spanking is depicted. You’re not supposed to like it, quite the opposite in fact, but you must ultimately accept it. In the spanking world, this is the consequence of your transgression.
I notice that most of the pix you selected to post have you reaching back to cover, and your hand is being restrained. As would be expected because, unless you’re getting spanked three times in a single day, those first smacks are setting fire to fresh nerve endings – quite a shock, I imagine. In the shot of you over Veronica’s lap it appears that you’re holding on for dear life, hoping it will end soon if you just don’t fight it, but your legs are doing their best to run away. Natural and enjoyable all. Pain DO hurt (or should) and you must find a way to cope while it lasts. One good thing about the spankings depicted on those old movies and TV shows, while the actors may not have actually been getting spanked, they were sure taught to make it look (and sound) convincing. (Do you ever audio tape your RL spankings and listen later – after long enough that that it’s almost fresh? If you listen carefully, like a blind person, you might be surprised that there were things going on that you were unaware of – at least consciously.)
September 14th, 2008 - 12:32 pm
Hi Chloe,
I agree with others here who say that some wiggling is good. Apart from anything it shows the spanker that he/she is doing something right.
I saw the spanking in the first pic with the colorful panties on Punished Brats - it was really good - I’m glad the panties didn’t last long though
The very first time I saw a scene with you was on one of Clare Fonda’s websites.. either Spanked Sweeties or Girl Spanks Girl.. from then I’ve been hooked! Keep being bad!